Thursday, April 10, 2008

What are you doing that you could have done differently?

What are you doing that you could have done differently?

"If I had only..."
"If I could turn back time..."

Recognize these sayings? There are so many things we wish we hadn't done or we wish we could have done differently. And I am sure all of us have uttered the above sayings at least once in our life time.

Do we want to regret what we have done? No of course not. We want to be able to say that we did the right thing and that we are happy with the choices we made.

And still so many of us go through life regretting what we didn't do (or did).

Stop regretting and change now! Life isn't about regretting, it's about taking opportunities and let nothing hold us back. Look at what you are doing right now that you could have done differently. Perhaps you are angry with your husband/child/neighbor and are letting you negative emotions out on them. You will probably end up regretting you were so hard on them or screamed at them because they made you upset. Or you regret that you didn't use your skills the way you should have when you had the chance. Or... There are so many things to regret.

Realizing what it is we are actually doing can help us more than we know. Analyzing our lives can be oh so hard but oh so necessary.

What are you doing in your life right now tht you could have done differently?

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new zealand accommadation said...

Thank you for a great post! I have been analyzing a certain event in my life a lot lately and regretting that it occured. This post reminded me that I can't change that and I should stop trying to understand it and just keep going on with things as they are.


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